Hear, my son, and
receive my sayings, and the years of your life will be many. I have taught you
in the way of wisdom; I have led you in right paths. When you walk, your steps
will not be hindered, and when you run, you will not stumble. Take firm hold of
instruction, do not let go; keep her, for she is your life. Proverbs 4:10-13
NKJV
In the last few years, I had been privileged to
meet many young adults in their twenties through the #ExcellenceInLife
mentoring programme across Africa. Relating with them took me back to my
twenties decade. That period was bittersweet for me but looking back I think, it could be one of the best decades of one’s life with the right knowledge.
I left Nigeria in my early twenties, being far from home and
having to depend on myself made me grew up faster than I think I would have
done. I was far from home, family and had no mentors. The decisions I made
during that time was not based on experience or guidance but trial and error.
There was no-one to correct or guide me in life’s journey. A life lesson to the
young adults, do not be in a hurry to move so far from home, and if you must ensure you have mentors to guide and support you.
Unfortunately, I see many young
adults with a desire to shrug off guidance and correction. There is this attitude of, “I know what I want,
and I can do what I want”. “I am not accountable to anyone now I am an adult”. Sadly,
this will lead you down a path of regret.
There was a young lady in her early twenties that I know who
blocked her mother from her Instagram page because she was corrected for posting
pictures revealing parts of her body that should be private. A person that
refuses to listen to correction will be left alone to make more. It
is easy to be resentful of corrections especially from those older because you
think they are ‘old school’. “Whoever
loves instruction loves knowledge, but he who hates correction is stupid.”
Proverbs 12:1 NKJV
My word of advice is to enjoy your twenties but have mentors you can be
accountable to and avoid unnecessary life changing mistakes due to your
inexperience and false sense of maturity. And for that young lady who took that
stupid act to block her mother, remember it’s not too late to make amends.
To be continued
#prayerfortheweek
Almighty Father, guide and always lead me to make
the right decisions in the name of Jesus I pray. Amen
I pray this inspires you to be more and do more for Yeshua Ha Mashiach (Jesus
Christ). Spend this week to meditate on the passage and take relevant step to
live out your faith.
#AdeolaAkintoye ©
#ajourneytospiritualmaturity
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