Sunday, 31 May 2026

Ọmọlúàbí — a child with good character and moral excellence




Ọmọlúàbí — a child with good character and moral excellence


As a child, when an elder calls you Ọmọlúàbí, it means you have done something that reflects good character and moral excellence. 

It is an honour to be called Ọmọlúàbí by an elder.

For an adult to be called Ọmọlúàbí, it means you have left a footprint — a visible trail of deeds rooted in integrity and moral excellence.

To be called Ọmọlúàbí is one of the greatest honours a person can receive.

Ọmọlúàbí is a person who embodies integrity, respect, and moral excellence.

Ọmọlúàbí is not an inherited title.

It is earned.

In our society, there are many honorary titles given to people for their good works and contributions. Yet none of these compares to the honour of being called Ọmọlúàbí.

Because Ọmọlúàbí is not given for achievements alone — it is given for the heart behind the achievements.

It is a recognition of integrity embodied in a life of consistent moral excellence.

That is why not many people are honoured as Ọmọlúàbí.

It is not inherited.

It is cultivated.

It is not demanded.

It is observed.

It is not spoken lightly.

It is earned through the quiet, consistent choices of everyday life.


What is stopping you and I from being Ọmọlúàbí?

We Can…

* Choose integrity daily — doing what is right even when unseen.

* Show respect in all interactions — honouring others in speech and conduct.

* Speak truth with courage — letting our words be trustworthy.

* Practice humility — valuing others without diminishing ourselves.

* Demonstrate kindness — allowing goodness to flow naturally from our lives.

* Live responsibly — owning our actions and their impact.

* Pursue moral excellence — refusing to compromise our values.


Ọmọlúàbí is not a title of status.

It is a testimony of character.

And the beautiful truth is this:


Anyone can become Ọmọlúàbí — starting today.

Adeola Akintoye

Sunday, 24 May 2026

Faith Reimagined – Lessons from the Persistent Widow

 



Text: “I tell you that He will bring about justice for them quickly. However, when the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?” Luke‬ ‭18‬:‭8‬ ‭NASB1995‬‬‬‬‬‬‬‬

Reflection
The parable of the persistent widow confronts me with a sobering question about the endurance of my own faith. Jesus is not simply teaching persistence in prayer—He is exposing the quiet drift that can turn living faith into familiar routine. The widow’s relentless return to the judge reveals the kind of trust that refuses to quit, even when answers delay. In contrast, Jesus warns that in the last days many will grow cold, distracted or discouraged. His question—“When the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?”—invites us to examine whether our devotion is merely habitual or truly enduring. It calls us back to persistent prayer, unwavering trust and spiritual stamina—a faith that keeps coming, keeps believing and keeps standing until God acts.

Introduction
“Then He spoke a parable to them, that men always ought to pray and not lose heart, saying: “There was in a certain city a judge who did not fear God nor regard man. Now there was a widow in that city; and she came to him, saying, ‘Get justice for me from my adversary.’ And he would not for a while; but afterward he said within himself, ‘Though I do not fear God nor regard man, yet because this widow troubles me I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me.’ ” Then the Lord said, “Hear what the unjust judge said. And shall God not avenge His own elect who cry out day and night to Him, though He bears long with them? I tell you that He will avenge them speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will He really find faith on the earth?”” Luke‬ ‭18‬:‭1‬-‭8‬ ‭NKJV‬‬‬‬‬‬‬‬‬‬
Jesus tells the parable so His disciples “would always pray and not lose heart.” The unjust judge finally grants the widow justice because she will not quit; God, who is just and loving, will surely act for His elect. The point is not whether God will respond, but whether His people will still be standing in faith when He does.

This question closes the parable of the persistent widow (Luke 18:1–8). Jesus tells the story so His disciples “would always pray and not lose heart.” But why link persistent prayer with the question of faith at His return?
Hebrews 11:1 reminds us that faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. Jesus is asking whether, when He returns, He will find people who remain hopeful and convinced of unseen realities despite delay, injustice, and hardship.

This is not about mere belief in God, church attendance, or religious labels. Jesus is asking whether people will still pray when answers are slow, still trust when circumstances worsen, and still refuse to abandon Christ. Will our faith survive pressure, delay, injustice, and darkness?
The widow models the answer Jesus desires: she kept coming, refused to quit, will not be silenced, and will not accept injustice. Her stubborn persistence teaches us what enduring faith looks like—relentless, active, and rooted in hope rather than convenience or emotion.

My Lessons from this Parable
1. God will bring justice God hears His people, sees their cries, and will act—unlike the unjust judge. His response is certain and just; the timing is His. The real issue is not whether God will respond, but whether we will still be standing in faith when He does.
2. The core question is endurance when Jesus asks, “When the Son of Man comes, will He find faith on the earth?” This is not about mere belief, church attendance, or religious labels. It asks whether people will still trust, pray, and cling to Christ when answers delay, pressure mounts, and injustice persists. Enduring faith not familiar faith is tested faith—steady, not shallow or convenient.
3. The widow models persistent faith. She keeps coming, refuses to be silenced, and will not accept injustice. Her persistence is not stubbornness for its own sake but a picture of relentless trust and refusal to give up. That is the posture Jesus commends.
4. A sober warning for the last days Jesus warns that love may grow cold, many will fall away, deception will increase, and pressure will rise. His question is urgent, not rhetorical: it calls every believer to examine the depth and durability of their faith.

God is faithful — will His people remain faithful? Jesus is not questioning God’s justice; He is exposing human endurance. The parable calls us to a faith that outlasts delay, injustice and spiritual drift.
Core summons: persistent prayer, unwavering trust, spiritual stamina, endurance under pressure, refusal to quit, and refusal to lose heart.

This is the faith Jesus seeks when He returns — not a faith of habit or emotion, but a tested, active devotion that keeps coming, keeps believing, and keeps pressing on until God acts.
Enduring faith brings both present and eternal rewards: now it deepens our relationship with God, giving peace, assurance, spiritual maturity and a stronger testimony as we see God work in His timing; it positions us for providential vindication and answered prayer, and it produces character and resilience through trials. Ultimately it yields eternal recognition and reward—commendation from the Master, crowns and the joy of final fellowship with Christ—so perseverance not only shapes our life today but secures our place and reward in the age to come.

Practically
1. Establish a daily, realistic prayer rhythm Set a short, consistent time each day for focused prayer (morning, lunch, or before bed). 
2. Anchor yourself in Scripture and small spiritual habits Choose a short Bible passage to read and meditate on daily (e.g., a Psalm or a Gospel passage). Pair it with one small habit to deepen affection for Christ beyond routine activity.
3. Build accountable fellowship community and serve outwardly Join or form a small group for mutual prayer, and encouragement; meet regularly and share real struggles. Combine this with practical service (helping a neighbour, volunteering at church) so faith is tested and strengthened in action, not just thought.
Start small, be consistent, and track progress—endurance grows through repeated, faithful practice, not sudden perfection.

Conclusion
God will bring justice; He hears the cries of His people and will act. Jesus’ warning is urgent: many will fall away, love will grow cold, and deception will increase. The decisive question remains—will your faith endure? 
Endurance is itself a spiritual discipline: keep praying, keep trusting, and let trials refine rather than replace your affection for Christ. The reward is not only a future crown but a present, transforming relationship with God that shapes how you live now.
Prayer for Persistent Faith — Lord, strengthen my heart to pray without ceasing. Give me unwavering trust in Your character, the stamina to stand firm under pressure, and the grace to keep seeking You even when answers delay.
Prayer for Endurance and Courage — Father, empower me to refuse discouragement and refuse to quit. Fill me with holy resilience, courage in trials, and a steadfast spirit that will not lose heart but keeps believing until Your promise breaks through.

Call to Salvation
Whether you already believe or you are still searching, Jesus is calling you closer. He invites every heart—tired, unsure, wandering or devoted—to come to Him. If you want to begin again, return to Him, or receive Him for the first time, you can open your heart and pray:
“Lord Jesus, I need You. I turn to You today. Forgive me, make me new, and help me follow You from this moment on. Amen.”
If you prayed this, take your next step—keep coming, keep growing, keep walking with Him. He receives every heart that turns toward Him.

Adeola Akintoye

Sunday, 17 May 2026

“Ìwà l’ẹwà” — Character is Beauty

I was reflecting recently about someone who is physically good‑looking—so attractive that people are drawn to them like moths to a flame. Yet, their character leaves much to be desired.

And it made me pause.

What is the essence of drawing people in, only to push them away through behaviour rooted in a rotten character—selfishness, self‑centredness, an unforgiving heart, and other traits that poison relationships?

The Scriptures give us sobering examples.

Rachel, described as beautiful in form and appearance (Genesis 29:17), lived a life marked by envy, rivalry, and discontent.

Absalom, praised as flawless from head to toe (2 Samuel 14:25), allowed pride, rebellion, and vengeance to destroy him.

Both their stories remind us that outward beauty without inner substance is a dangerous combination. It attracts, but it cannot sustain. It shines, but it cannot keep anyone warm. It draws attention, but it does not build legacy.

Outward beauty and inner ugliness is a contradiction that eventually reveals itself.

It is like a well‑decorated house with a rotten foundation—impressive at first glance, but unsafe to dwell in.

Give me plainness on the outside and beauty on the inside any day.

Because true beauty—ìwà, character—is what endures, what nourishes, what blesses, and what keeps relationships whole.

In the end, “Ìwà l’ẹwà” is not just a proverb.

It is a warning, a mirror, and an invitation to cultivate the kind of inner life that makes us truly beautiful.

Let us be beautiful on the outside and the inside


Adeola Akintoye

Saturday, 9 May 2026

Self-Sabotage


Nearly twenty years ago, my pastor (in South Africa) asked me to prepare to take the Word that Sunday. My first reaction was horror. “I cannot. I am not ready," were the first words out of my mouth. Bless him, he gently rebuked me and said, “You are ready’. I nearly self-sabotaged even before the ministry Christ has committed into my hands saw the light of the day.

Over the years, I still see self-sabotage raise its ugly head. Those negative thoughts and even action that is contrary to what I want to achieve. But I have realised that Self-sabotage is one of the most powerful destiny killers.

It happens when our own thoughts, habits, actions, or behaviors undermine or interfere with our gifts, purpose, goals, or well-being—even when we genuinely desire progress. Often it’s unconscious. We want to succeed, yet our patterns block us, and the cycle repeats.

Common Ways to Self-Sabotage

* Procrastination: Delaying important tasks even when deadlines are close.
* Negative Self-Talk: Telling ourself we are not good enough.
* Unrealistic Standards: Setting the bar too high, then quitting when we fall short.

Why do we Self-Sabotage?

  • Fear of Failure or Success
  • Low Self-Esteem
  • Comfort in Familiar Patterns
  • Unresolved Past Experiences
  • What is your reason?

Biblical Pictures of Self-Sabotage

Samson
He was chosen and gifted, yet his impulsive desires—especially his entanglement with Delilah—led him to betray his own calling. His downfall shows how ignoring boundaries can sabotage destiny.

King Saul
Anointed as Israel’s first king, yet insecurity, disobedience, and jealousy caused him to lose God’s favor and ultimately his kingdom.

Lesson: Even with divine calling, unmastered impulses and fears can derail purpose.

Biblical Pictures of Overcoming Self-Sabotage

Peter
He denied Jesus out of fear, but Jesus restored him. Peter became a bold leader—proof that failure can refine, not define.

Moses
He doubted himself and felt unqualified, but God reassured him. Moses stepped into his assignment and became Israel’s great deliverer.

Jonah
He ran from God’s instruction, but repentance restored him. His obedience led Nineveh to repentance.

Lesson: Self-sabotage doesn’t have to be the end of our story. With humility and obedience, we can rise again.

Breaking the Cycle

It is possible for us to break free.
- [ ] Prayer: Pray without ceasing
- [ ] Increase Self-Awareness: I notice patterns that block progress.
- [ ] Challenge Negative Beliefs: Replace “I can’t” with “I’m learning.”
- [ ] Set Realistic Goals: Break big tasks into steps.
- [ ] Seek Support: Accountability helps me reframe my thinking.
- [ ] Practice Self-Compassion: I treat myself with patience.

Key Takeaway

Self-sabotage is not a permanent trait—it’s a pattern I can change. When we recognize the signs and address the fears beneath them, we stop undermining ourself and move closer to our God-given purpose.

🙏 Prayer Points

1. Renewed Mindset
Lord, transform my mind and remove every negative thought pattern that causes me to doubt myself or sabotage my progress.

2. Discipline and Focus
Father, strengthen me to overcome procrastination, distraction, and laziness.

3. Freedom From Fear and Insecurity
Lord, break the hold of fear, insecurity, and self-doubt. Fill me with boldness and confidence.

4. Obedience and Humility
Heavenly Father, keep me from pride and disobedience. Teach me to walk in Your will.

5. Restoration and Purpose

Lord, restore every area where I have sabotaged myself. Redirect my steps toward Your purpose and let my story reveal Your grace.


Adeola Akintoye

Saturday, 2 May 2026

Súrù Lèrè — Patience Is Profitable


Recently, I was driving through Ojota in Lagos, Nigeria. I was exiting from one motorway into another when I suddenly found myself sandwiched between two trucks. I believed I was already ahead of them, so I continued driving, expecting both drivers to slow down.

But in a split second, the truck on my right clipped the back of my car. The impact scraped the side and pulled out the edge of my rear bumper. His own front bumper was also damaged.

In that moment, a Yoruba adage rose sharply in my mind:

Súrù Lèrè — Patience is Profitable.

If either of us had exercised just a little patience—one extra second, one small pause—both vehicles would have passed through without damage. No repairs. No inconvenience. No unnecessary loss.

Life is like that.

A moment of impatience can cost far more than we expect.
A moment of patience can save far more than we imagine.

Where Patience Matters Most

Patience is not weakness; it is wisdom. It is strength under control. It is the quiet discipline that prevents unnecessary battles and preserves what truly matters.

Here are some areas of life where patience becomes a shield, a teacher, and a lifeline:

1. As a Parent

Children grow in stages. They test boundaries, learn slowly, repeat mistakes, and stretch our capacity.
Patience teaches us to guide rather than react, to nurture rather than explode, to model the calm we want them to embody.
A patient parent raises a secure child.

2. With a Spouse

Marriage is a union of two imperfect people learning to love each other daily.
Patience softens conflicts, slows down harsh words, and gives room for understanding.
Sometimes the greatest gift you can give your spouse is time—time to process, time to grow, time to heal.

3. In Friendships and Relationships

People disappoint. People change. People evolve.
Patience helps us hold space for others without forcing them into our expectations.
It keeps relationships from breaking under the weight of assumptions and quick judgments.

4. In Career and Business

Not every opportunity matures immediately.
Patience keeps you from rushing into wrong partnerships, premature decisions, or shortcuts that cost more later.
Growth takes time—real, sustainable growth even more so.

5. In Personal Growth

Be patient with yourself.
Transformation is not instant. Healing is not linear. Becoming who God designed you to be is a journey, not a sprint.

Biblical Wisdom on Patience

Scripture consistently presents patience as a virtue, a fruit, and a mark of spiritual maturity.
* “But let patience have her perfect work, that ye may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.” — James 1:4

Patience completes us. It shapes character.
* “Love is patient, love is kind…” — 1 Corinthians 13:4

The first description of love is patience. Without patience, love cannot stand.
* “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for Him.” — Psalm 37:7

Patience is an act of trust—trusting God’s timing over our urgency.
* “The fruit of the Spirit is… patience…” — Galatians 5:22

Patience is evidence of the Spirit at work in us.

The Bible doesn’t treat patience as optional. It is foundational to wisdom, relationships, and spiritual growth.

The Heart of the Matter

Impatience is expensive.
Patience is profitable.

Whether on the road, in the home, in relationships, or in the quiet corners of our personal journey, patience protects us from unnecessary losses and positions us for lasting gain.

In life, a little patience can prevent a lifetime of regret.

Súrù Lèrè. Patience truly pays.



Adeola Akintoye

Saturday, 25 April 2026

Rest

And He said, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” Exodus 33:12-14 NKJV


Rest is something we take for granted. We enjoy it only fleetingly. It is not everyone that has a day off or takes days off work that have rest. You can even sleep and not be rested. Why is rest not a sustained state?

 

Rest can be defined as when there is a cease of work or movement to relax, sleep, or recover strength. This is characterised by minimal functional and metabolic activities. It could also be characterised by freedom from activity or labor.

 

Why is rest important? We can get some insights from the creation story. 

“So the creation of the heavens and the earth and everything in them was completed. On the seventh day God had finished his work of creation, so he rested from all his work. And God blessed the seventh day and declared it holy because it was the day when he rested from all his work of creation.” Genesis 2:1-3 NLT

 

Rest comes after work, without work there is no rest. Jehovah God instituted rest, blessed the day of rest, and declared it holy. This means rest is not just going to work, sleeping, or taking holiday. The day of rest is blessed and holy.

 

When Jehovah was shaping the nation of Israel in the wilderness, he gave them a commandment to observe the day of rest. This was a commandment of blessing. They were to rest on day seven after working for six days. Isn’t this amazing?

 

“Remember to observe the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. You have six days each week for your ordinary work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath day of rest dedicated to the Lord your God. On that day no one in your household may do any work. This includes you, your sons and daughters, your male and female servants, your livestock, and any foreigners living among you. For in six days, the Lord made the heavens, the earth, the sea, and everything in them; but on the seventh day, he rested. That is why the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and set it apart as holy.” Exodus 20:8-11 NLT

 

The day of rest was to be dedicated to the Lord not our pleasure. Because it is a holy day it must be kept holy. 

 

Rest is a gift from the Lord as Jesus invited, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 NLT

 

Rest comes from the Lord, and it is sustained by Him. Moses got this nugget of wisdom when he refused to move unless Jehovah goes with him because, without the presence of the Lord, there is no true rest.

“Then Moses said to the Lord, “See, You say to me, ‘Bring up these people.’ But You have not let me know whom You will send with me. Yet You have said, ‘I know you by name, and you have also found grace in My sight.’ Now, therefore, I pray, if I have found grace in Your sight, show me now Your way, that I may know You and that I may find grace in Your sight. And consider that this nation is Your people.” And He said, “My Presence will go with you, and I will give you rest.” Exodus 33:12-14 NKJV

 

Rest requires an active action. Because it is a gift, it requires faith and obedience. “Therefore, since a promise remains of entering His rest, let us fear lest any of you seem to have come short of it. Let us, therefore, be diligent to enter that rest, lest anyone fall according to the same example of disobedience.” Hebrews 4:1, 11 NKJV

 

Many people desire a rest that will bring peace of mind, health to the body and hope to the spirit. This type of rest is from the presence of Jehovah to those who are in a relationship with Him. His Son, Jesus Christ is the way to Jehovah. And He is inviting you today to “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.” Matthew 11:28 NLT

 

Why not open your heart to Jesus today. Believe in your heart that Yeshua Christ Jesus is the Son of God. Repent and ask forgiveness for your sins, for we are all sinners and have fallen short of the glory of Jehovah. Prayerfully look for a bible teaching fellowship near you to fellowship with other brethren and study the word of Elohim. Dedicate or rededicate your life to him. The Spirit of Truth will come and dwell in you and lead you in all things.

 

Prayerfortheweek: Almighty Father, give me the grace to diligently enter into your rest.

 

Thank you for joining me today on this journey of spiritual maturity.  You can also check my videos on YouTube and my bite-size podcast on Anchor Practical Christianity with Adeola Akintoye. 

 

Remain Blessed.

 

If you accept Jesus or turn back to him, please get in touch. I am so excited! You give me hope and joy and are my proud reward and crown when I stand before our Lord Jesus when he returns. Yes, you are our pride and joy (1Thessalonians 2:19-20 NLT).

Inbox me, email me, just get in touch. I want to join you in prayers every day

My email is info@adeolaakintoye.com

 

I pray that this inspires you to reflect on your relationship with Elohim and be determined to be more and do more for Him each day. 

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