Friday, 26 June 2026

Ojúkòkòrò - an excessive, unhealthy desire

Ojúkòkòrò in Yoruba means greed, covetousness — an excessive, unhealthy desire for something. Yoruba adages are so rich in meaning. When one sees something and desires to acquire it no matter what, that is ojúkòkòrò. The eyes see. The heart desires. The flesh craves.

Ojúkòkòrò is a disease.

I have a small fruit patch in my garden. No matter what we planted, sometimes it grew, sometimes it didn’t. And even when it did grow, the plant that came out was weak, stunted, or infected with disease. For a long time, we thought the problem was the seed. But eventually, we discovered the real issue: there were ants hidden deep in the soil. They were quietly eating the roots, draining the life from the plant before it even had a chance to flourish.

That is exactly how ojúkòkòrò works in a person’s life. Greed is like those ants — invisible at first, buried beneath the surface, but constantly eating away at character, contentment, and peace. On the outside, someone may look like they are growing, achieving, or producing fruit. But underneath, ojúkòkòrò is destroying the roots: gratitude, integrity, and trust in God.

Until the soil of the heart is cleansed, nothing planted there — no blessing, opportunity, or relationship — can thrive. What looks like a “fruit problem” is often a heart problem, and ojúkòkòrò is one of the most destructive pests of all.

Ojúkòkòrò corrupts from the inside, long before the damage becomes visible.

It makes a person restless — never satisfied, always craving more.

It destroys what God is trying to grow in them.

It blinds them to the blessings already in their hands.

Someone with ojúkòkòrò behaves in ways that reveal a heart that is never satisfied, never content, and always craving more — even at the expense of others.

Takes more than they need — driven by appetite, not necessity.

Covets what belongs to others — constantly comparing and desiring.

Manipulates or schemes — cutting corners or using people.

Never expresses gratitude — always focused on “more.”

Destroys relationships — jealousy, competition, mistrust.

Loses peace and contentment — always chasing, never resting.

Makes self harming decisions — like ants eating roots, it destroys integrity and future.

Just like the ants, ojúkòkòrò must be identified, uprooted, and treated, or it will keep sabotaging every good thing planted in a person’s life.

1. Identify the Pattern

Ojúkòkòrò often disguises itself as ambition or “wanting more,” so identification requires honesty. Look for recurring behaviours such as:

A persistent sense that nothing is ever enough

Subtle envy when others rise

A restless drive to acquire, accumulate, or compete

Decisions made from appetite rather than assignment

This step exposes the “ant trail” so you can see where the sabotage begins.

2. Trace the Root

Every destructive craving grows from a deeper emotional or spiritual root. Common roots include:

Childhood scarcity or lack

A wound from rejection or comparison

Fear of being left behind

A belief that God’s timing cannot be trusted

Tracing the root helps you understand why the appetite keeps resurfacing.

3. Uproot the Lie

Ojúkòkòrò survives on internal lies that distort perception. Examples of lies to confront and replace:

Lie: “If I don’t grab it now, I’ll lose my chance.” Truth: My times are in God’s hands — what is mine cannot be taken, rushed, or stolen.

Lie: “What I have is not enough for where I’m going.” Truth: God multiplies what I steward well — sufficiency grows in gratitude and faithful use.

Lie: “Others are ahead of me; I must catch up.” Truth: I run my own God ordained race — destiny is not a competition; my path has its own timing and grace.

Why These Truths Work Each truth does three things simultaneously:

Reframes your identity (you are not behind).

Repositions your heart (you are not lacking).

Releases pressure (you are not late).

This is how inner stability is restored and the cycle of ojúkòkòrò is broken.

4. Treat the Heart

After uprooting, the heart must be strengthened so the pattern doesn’t return. This involves:

Practicing gratitude to reset your internal atmosphere

Slowing down decisions so appetite doesn’t lead

Building rhythms of contentment and rest

Submitting desires to God before acting

This is the “soil treatment” that prevents reinfestation.

5. Replant Healthy Desires

A vacuum will always be filled — so you intentionally plant what you want to grow. Healthy replacements include:

Purpose driven goals instead of impulsive desires

Generosity instead of accumulation

Service instead of self focus

Spirit led ambition instead of pressure driven striving

This ensures your inner garden produces fruit, not weeds.

6. Stay Accountable

Ojúkòkòrò thrives in secrecy, so accountability is a protective fence. This may look like:

A mentor who asks real questions

A spiritual leader who speaks truth

A trusted friend who notices shifts in behaviour

Accountability keeps your heart aligned and prevents silent drift.

7. Watch for Warning Signs

Even after healing, old patterns try to return. Early warning signs include:

Sudden impatience

Irritation at others’ success

Overcommitment driven by fear of missing out

A rising need to prove something

Catching these early prevents the cycle from restarting.

Luke 12:15 And He said to them, “Take heed and beware of covetousness, for one’s life does not consist in the abundance of the things he possesses.”


Thursday, 11 June 2026

Ẹwà vs Ìwà — Beauty vs Character



There are people whose outward beauty is undeniable. We often say “beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” but there are some whose appearance is so striking that everyone who beholds them acknowledges it.

Yet, for some of these same people, their character is painfully ugly.

And it raises a sober question: Can outward beauty — constantly praised, celebrated, and admired — become the very soil where pride grows?

Because a person who feeds on the applause of others, who takes pride in their physical appearance, can easily slip into the ugliness of pride, arrogance, entitlement, and self‑worship. Their beauty becomes a trap, and their character becomes their downfall.

But then, there are others who, by human standards, may not be considered beautiful.
Yet when you meet them, you encounter something far more precious — a beautiful soul:
* Humility
* Kindness
* Patience
* Gentleness, compassion, integrity 
 
Their presence brings peace. Their words bring life. Their character draws people in more deeply than physical beauty ever could.

So if you had to choose between beauty on the outside and beauty within, which would you truly choose?

God has already shown us His standard.

In 2 Samuel 16:7, between a handsome man and a ruddy youth, God chose David, the one whose heart was aligned with Him.
God does not see as man sees.
Man looks at the outward appearance.
God looks at the heart.

Lessons to Carry
* Have you been admired for your physical beauty?
Then ask yourself: Is my heart beautiful too?

* Do you choose people based on outward beauty?
Why not begin choosing based on character, starting today.

* Beauty fades. Character remains.
And before God, Ìwà — character — is the true definition of beauty.

A Prayer
Lord, make my ẹwà and my iwa beautiful.
Let my outward life reflect the beauty of a transformed heart.
Deliver me from pride, and clothe me with humility, kindness, and grace.

Amen.